The Lens You Don’t Know You’re Looking Through
Most people never question the beliefs that shape their reality. This is how you start.
The Pillars We Never Question
By Isaac
From the moment we’re born, we’re handed a worldview. Our parents, teachers, and the people around us - they pass down what they know. What they believe. And because we trust them, we accept it all as truth.
But here’s what no one tells you: much of what we’re taught isn’t universal truth. It’s just their truth. Passed down, well-meaning, but often incomplete.
As we grow older, those beliefs solidify. They become pillars in our minds. We don’t even question them - because questioning them feels like questioning who we are.
And that’s where growth gets hard.
Because if someone challenges those beliefs, we don’t just hear disagreement. We feel attacked. But what if they’re not attacking?
What if they’re offering us a new way to see?
Growth, I’ve learned, isn’t about protecting your view at all costs. It’s about having the courage to ask:
“What if I’m wrong?”
“What if there’s more to understand?”
That doesn’t mean accepting every opinion as fact. It means asking why a little more often by practicing empathy.
Not to prove someone else wrong - but to stretch the limits of what you know.
That’s the real work.
In business, in life, in everything we do - growth begins the moment you stop defending your perception and start expanding it.
Perspective vs. Perception: Why Knowing the Difference Actually Matters
By Dalton
Everyone, from the moment they open their eyes as a newborn to the last breath they take - builds something called perception. It’s how we view the world. Our filter. The lens we look through based on what we’ve seen, what we’ve been taught, and the experiences that have shaped us.
Simple as that.
But here’s the thing most people miss: just because you see the world a certain way doesn’t mean everyone else does. What’s “normal” to you might be bizarre, offensive, or completely invisible to someone else. That’s the danger of living inside your own perception for too long. It limits you.
And yet... we all do it.
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